Friday 7 December 2012

How To Meet Girls And Get Their Number



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Guys, here at My Vegetarian Dating, we want to give you some tips on how to meet girls and get their number, so if this is something you're keen to learn about, then read on....

The typical way of asking out a lady is to find her somewhere out there in the real world, in a coffee shop, a store, or on the street, and exchange information. The key thing is, you must have a way of contacting her after your first meeting, or you'll never see her again.

Some men go try to get a girl's cell phone number the minute start talking with a girl. Being able to get a number is a task in itself. If she wants to give you her number, she'll offer it to you.

You cannot overpower a girl into handing over her number, and it's not going to be much use to you if you do. What you want, is, even before you ask, is that she should be thinking to herself “I hope he asks for my number”. That's comes down to going in with the right, confident attitude. And making some effort with your appearance, of course.

Listed below are some basic guidelines you need to take before you can get a female's number.

Step 1: Create an Excellent First Impression

The main reason why you would choose a magazine at the newsagents is because the cover caught your attention. By the same token, when it comes to meeting for the first time, you should be aiming to make a great first impression on a girl you are asking out. Women are pretty quick at deciding if they're going to talk to you or not. Ladies who are hit on by men often do this, as it happens to them all the time. So, it's important that when you get your opportunity to conversation with her, you are ready to be interesting and on point.

Step 2: Get Her Attention

If you know what makes a lady turn round and take notice, this phase should be straightforward. If, for example, all you can think about is the periodic table or your collection of stamps, and you decide to share this with her, there's a good chance she'll be bored stiff (unless she's a geek too, in which case, well done!). Do keep in your mind, that a girl must choose to have a conversation with you before the conversation even happens. Approach confidently, and if things develop, have a ready strategy of things to discuss when you are with her. Planning is vital.

When a lady is tired with the conversation you are having, her concentrate will wane. She may look around in search of her buddies, or she could exchange looks with other people around. Look out for these signs. The point is, if you are tedious, she will not voluntarily offer you with her number when you ask. She may even decide that she is done with the conversation even before you can ask.

Step 3: Let Her Talk About Herself and Listen

A great way for making a girl carry on the interaction when you approach you is to let her do the hard work - the talking. No one ever got into trouble by being a great listener. You are not just going to ask any random question, every question must be a way to get her to speak. Take a genuine interest, and she'll be happy to answer. Use different questioning techniques, steer clear of ones that are likely to elicit a yes/no or one word answer. A question is a excellent one if it gets her discussing and describing her thoughts and feelings.

You could break it down with a practical conversation subject, such as why she is in that particular evening club. You can even start with a query that gets her inquisitive, like asking her what her clothes say about her personality. Keep it fun.

If you can accomplish all these, then you'll have a good chance of giving you her number at the end of the conversation.

If you want to meet vegetarian and vegan singles, a great place to go is My Vegetarian Dating.

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